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When you know, but you can't say
Knowing someone’s cheating and staying silent isn’t loyalty—it’s emotional torture dressed up as protection. And it haunts you.
Lee C
6 days ago4 min read


Monkey Branching: The Relationship Jungle Gym No One Asked For
Monkey branching hurts. It’s cowardly, selfish, and leaves heartbreak behind. A harsh truth about people who won’t let go before swinging on
Lee C
Mar 244 min read


Why Do People Lose Their Rag When You Set Boundaries?
"The only people who get upset about boundaries are the ones who benefitted from you not having any. Hold your ground—it’s not up for debate
The Boundary Bloke
Feb 133 min read


Why Do Some People Have a Problem with They/Them, Non Binary Pronouns?
Dismissing they/them pronouns isn’t a debate—it’s ignorance. If you expect respect as a gay man, extend the same to non-binary people.
Lee C
Feb 63 min read


Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Jealousy in polyamory isn’t a failure—it’s just a feeling. The real question isn’t if it happens, but how you handle it when it does.
Lee C
Feb 53 min read


Three's Company, Not a Crowd: Let’s Talk Triads
Triads: more love, more chaos, and a Google Calendar obsession. Navigating love triangles is messy, but oh, so worth it when it works.
Lee C
Jan 245 min read


Poly in a Mono World: Navigating Love from Two Angles
Polyamory in a monogamous relationship: navigating love, boundaries, and sacrifices while staying true to yourself. Read our heartfelt guide
Lee C
Jan 134 min read


You Aren’t Too Busy, You’re Being a Bad Friend
Too busy to text back or make plans? It's not about time; it's about priorities. Explore why flaky friendships hurt and how to move on.
Lee C
Jan 44 min read


A Heartfelt Goodbye: Wishing Well to Friends Who Move On
Losing a friend without closure is a slow heartache. It’s a journey of letting go, finding peace, and embracing the silence of moving on.
Lee C
Dec 22, 20248 min read


Supporting Your Partner During Their Breakup with Their Partner
Supporting your partner through their breakup while balancing your own needs isn’t easy, but empathy and communication are key.
Lee C
Nov 24, 20247 min read
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