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When you know, but you can't say
Knowing someone’s cheating and staying silent isn’t loyalty—it’s emotional torture dressed up as protection. And it haunts you.
Lee C
7 days ago4 min read


Monkey Branching: The Relationship Jungle Gym No One Asked For
Monkey branching hurts. It’s cowardly, selfish, and leaves heartbreak behind. A harsh truth about people who won’t let go before swinging on
Lee C
Mar 244 min read


Being Hit by the Lust Truck: The 'Soul Mate' Connection
Explore the sparks of chemistry in relationships, from instant connections to deep intimacy. Discover the magic behind true attraction.
Lee C
Mar 224 min read


ADHD's Secret Social Superpower: Spotting the Bad Guy
ADHD gives us a built-in vibe detector—spotting red flags before anyone else. We may forget keys, but we won’t miss shady behaviour!
Lee C
Mar 65 min read


Unicorn Hunting: The Gay Edition
Unicorn hunting in gay polyamory—why it’s tricky, what goes wrong, and how to build a real triad without treating someone like an accessory.
Lee C
Feb 265 min read


Why Do People Lose Their Rag When You Set Boundaries?
"The only people who get upset about boundaries are the ones who benefitted from you not having any. Hold your ground—it’s not up for debate
The Boundary Bloke
Feb 133 min read


Why Do Some People Have a Problem with They/Them, Non Binary Pronouns?
Dismissing they/them pronouns isn’t a debate—it’s ignorance. If you expect respect as a gay man, extend the same to non-binary people.
Lee C
Feb 63 min read


Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Jealousy in polyamory isn’t a failure—it’s just a feeling. The real question isn’t if it happens, but how you handle it when it does.
Lee C
Feb 53 min read


ADHD Hyperfocus: The Superpower That Destroys My Life
ADHD hyperfocus: the struggle of being glued to a task until 4 AM, missing meals, ignoring messages, and then wondering where the time went.
Lee C
Jan 304 min read


Three's Company, Not a Crowd: Let’s Talk Triads
Triads: more love, more chaos, and a Google Calendar obsession. Navigating love triangles is messy, but oh, so worth it when it works.
Lee C
Jan 245 min read
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