Unicorn hunting in gay polyamory—why it’s tricky, what goes wrong, and how to build a real triad without treating someone like an accessory.

"The only people who get upset about boundaries are the ones who benefitted from you not having any. Hold your ground—it’s not up for debate

Dismissing they/them pronouns isn’t a debate—it’s ignorance. If you expect respect as a gay man, extend the same to non-binary people.